No more Whining

Yes, no more whining!

If you've seen my last 5 posts (erased already) they were all nothing but complaining about the situation I was going through. The waiting, the missing, the compromise ... etc. Since when love needed all of that? Since when love was a one party compromise/hurt/weakness? Love is sharing and understanding the person you're with. Both parties compromise and communicate with one another about simply everything. It's the share of thoughts, emotions, feelings, and everything else. It's true that each person should keep his/her unique identity and not melt into the other, however, having two different identities that complete one another is the point of being in love. After all, isn't love supposed to mean sharing the same fate and being together forever? Well how can you do that when you're the only one struggling to keep the relationship alive?

I finally made the right decision, without fear, without being hurt, and without regrets. I knew it's right and I knew it's time. After all, I gave a chance for more than two long weeks and nothing happened, so why waste my time and wait longer? Honestly speaking, if you're one of those people who'll be clinging on one sided relationship just because you're scared to let go and be alone in this wide life here's my advice: Let them go now before it's too late tomorrow. Take it from a person who has been through a lot, you don't improve a relationship by clinging to it, instead, let your loved one go, set him/her free, if they came back then they're true, but if they don't then you aren't meant to be.

After reading "The Secret" and "Love Smart" I now strongly believe in myself and will. I believe that the right person for me is out there and sooner or later I'm going to meet him and start an amazing life. Having said that, there's just no point in wasting your time and energy and perhaps loosing the right person by being with random wrong people. If the person isn't right for you let him/her go, honestly don't be scared JUST DO IT! I wasted two years of my life clinging to someone and after letting go I knew he wasn't the right person for me so I promised myself not to repeat the drama. A long time after that I met another person who was good and all but started distancing himself so I remembered the promise I gave myself and let him go too, but this time in a shorter period. After all, why miss the right person by being all worried and sad with another? It's just not worth it!!

Stay positive, enjoy your life, and never stop believing :)!