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Sunday, August 1, 2010

Getting what you want through Meditation

As I've been reading the book "Ask and it is Given" I came across the meditation process. I tried it out and felt a sense of relief so I went online and searched more about meditation and how we can effectively use it to gain what we desire. I found the below information that I would like to share with you all.

Through meditation, not only do you attract the one thing you wanted, but also things you've been wanting for a long time starts to take place in your experience because it helps you to be in an allowing state through releasing resistance.

Meditation helps you relax, clear your mind and really focus on that thing that you've always wanted happening. It also helps you raise your vibration to an allowing state for all desires to manifest. Keeping in mind that the amount of time it takes you to get to what you want is the amount of time that takes you to shift the vibration within you. I did come across an article that stated that you can get what it is that you wanted in only 7 days through meditation.

It has been said that by using meditation the following phases take place until you finally get what you want:

Phase 1 - Meditation:

A person relaxes for 10 or 15 minutes daily by deep breathing and clearing his/her mind through focusing only on their breathing. They focus on what they desire and imagine it in details. They sense the feeling that they will have once they get their desire. They also imagine how their whole life will be once they get what they desire.

Phase 2 - Alpha:

In this phase things relevant to what you desire starts showing up in your life so keep your eyes open.

Phase 3 - Beta:

This is the phase where you actually start manifesting your desire. Perhaps little things start to happen or you get a sudden desire to make a phone call or check the newspaper after meditating that would lead you the getting your desire.

Phase 4 - Getting your desire:

This phase is simply manifesting your desire with it coming into your experience.



Good Luck :)!

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

I believe

After listening to some recordings of "Ask and it's given" and also reading a few articles about it and the Vortex I came to an understanding that everything that is happening to us in a result of a thought we had. The type of life we're living, the kind of people we're surrounded with, the money, the health, the style, the social status - everything is a result of a simple thought we had in the past.

Take a look back to your old days and remember the things you were dreaming about. Remember the details and basically everything, hasn't it resulted in your current life? Of course it did and it will still do as long as you have a right mind to generate the thoughts that work on creation. If you have had good thoughts that actually acheived what you were always dreaming of then bravo! However, if you have those negative thoughts that has resulted into you living a bad life and it's getting worse every day then you need to change your thoughts right away - NOW! As reflected on my past I noticed that yes, everything I thought of, whether good or bad, did in fact affective me in my current life. I'm glad for all the good things I dreamt of, however, I regret having the bad thoughts and I'm doing my best now to fix them with good positive thoughts. After all, everything we think of happens, right?

The Vortex, yes, something I was in doubt of, but now know it's existing and it's helping us find the answers we were always looking for. We just have to connect ourselves to it to get answers and for our dreams to unfold in front of our eyes. It's basically like picking your choices out of an album - whatever it was the thing you wanted!

The reason I decided to change is because I've been through a lot of bad situations that left me broken and hurt. The urge to search more, do more, and always believing that I'll be left alone had a lot to do with my experiences as all I got was the thing I thought of. Once I changed all my negative thoughts into positive ones a lot of things has changed: I'm happy, satisfied, confident, love everyone and everything, and always know that I'm attracting nothing but the best of best.

Keep believing and keep dreaming :)!

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Is it for real?

Did it ever happen to you that you met a person for the first time, someone who you know nothing about, and talked for a very short period or perhaps just saw one another without any verbal interaction, but for some reason got stuck into your mind. Someone who actually pops up into your mind out of no where and you start thinking about him/her with a strong powerful emotion, I won't say love because you don't know that person, but such a strong positive feeling towards that person although you know you might never meet again.

Such a feeling is happening to me right now and I'm not sure how to explain it. It's very overwhelming to the extend that's making me wonder WHY AM I THINKING ABOUT THAT PERSON? Is it a normal thing that happens when you see/meet someone you enjoy? Or is it something your innerbeing is trying to tell you? Is there some kind of message to be sent through that feeling that I'm not yet aware about? I do believe in the latter.

I'm a strong believer of the Law of Attraction and the Vortex that comes behind it. I totally understand and believe that everything that happens in our lives is nothing but a result of a thought we had sometime. I also believe in the power of the Vortex having all the answers to your everyday questions on what/how to do certain things. Not only that, but I've also been in situations where I felt strongly about someone and a certain date and something actually happened that someone on that date.

So the story now is repeating itself and I hope things turn out for good. Well they will if they're meant to be of course. I'll stay positive and hope things turn out to the best :)!

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

The right way ...

As I was sitting today reflecting on all the wishes I want to get, my memories took me back to one of my classes back in high school. I remember the teacher very well, after all, she was one of the most wise teachers I've had. I remembered her speaking to us about wishes and how to get them - Something I would really like to share with you. She said that every human being will get what they ask for except that they're given the choice on the way to get what they want - the right or wrong way.

As an example: A person asking for 100$. He will be granted that cash either way, but he got the choice to either: steal it OR work for it. With her saying that, a sense of relief crossed my soul. How many times did we take the wrong way to get what we wanted? Why didn't we wait and chose to go the right way? Why is it that some people think that they can never get what they want unless through a dirty tricky way?

I still keep that memory precious and close to my heart. I've learned a lot from it and still apply it to my daily life. After all, I did suffer from a few situations where I used the wrong way to get what I wanted and then deeply regretted it. So why the wrong way? Let's keep it right!

Sunday, June 27, 2010

No more Whining

Yes, no more whining!

If you've seen my last 5 posts (erased already) they were all nothing but complaining about the situation I was going through. The waiting, the missing, the compromise ... etc. Since when love needed all of that? Since when love was a one party compromise/hurt/weakness? Love is sharing and understanding the person you're with. Both parties compromise and communicate with one another about simply everything. It's the share of thoughts, emotions, feelings, and everything else. It's true that each person should keep his/her unique identity and not melt into the other, however, having two different identities that complete one another is the point of being in love. After all, isn't love supposed to mean sharing the same fate and being together forever? Well how can you do that when you're the only one struggling to keep the relationship alive?

I finally made the right decision, without fear, without being hurt, and without regrets. I knew it's right and I knew it's time. After all, I gave a chance for more than two long weeks and nothing happened, so why waste my time and wait longer? Honestly speaking, if you're one of those people who'll be clinging on one sided relationship just because you're scared to let go and be alone in this wide life here's my advice: Let them go now before it's too late tomorrow. Take it from a person who has been through a lot, you don't improve a relationship by clinging to it, instead, let your loved one go, set him/her free, if they came back then they're true, but if they don't then you aren't meant to be.

After reading "The Secret" and "Love Smart" I now strongly believe in myself and will. I believe that the right person for me is out there and sooner or later I'm going to meet him and start an amazing life. Having said that, there's just no point in wasting your time and energy and perhaps loosing the right person by being with random wrong people. If the person isn't right for you let him/her go, honestly don't be scared JUST DO IT! I wasted two years of my life clinging to someone and after letting go I knew he wasn't the right person for me so I promised myself not to repeat the drama. A long time after that I met another person who was good and all but started distancing himself so I remembered the promise I gave myself and let him go too, but this time in a shorter period. After all, why miss the right person by being all worried and sad with another? It's just not worth it!!

Stay positive, enjoy your life, and never stop believing :)!

Monday, June 14, 2010

The Secret Steps

I just finished reading an article on how to use "The Secret" to get what you want no matter what it was. I summarized the article into a few steps that you can hopefully benefit from:

Positive Thinking

Start thinking positive by switching on your internal switch to the positive side because things only start to happen when you make them happen – when you believe they will! Love everything and everyone it's the strongest positive energy you can ever have – spread the love!

Plan

Start with a thought and that thought will create motions that will make your wish happens. Bring a pen and paper and start outlining the life you want to have in details. Whether it was a career, residence, money, education, relationship or any other thing you want from life. Be visual and include pictures in your plan to help you be more specific.
Example:
You want to own a house that looks a certain way. You go ahead and describe it through words and pictures – be specific!

Receive

You got what you want so receive it through thinking of it as reality. Close your eyes and imagine receiving that house or job you have always dreamt of having.

Enjoy

Always smile and feel good because you are living what you have wished for – you're a winner!

Gratitude

Always remember to be grateful to what you have been given and give goodness to everyone and everything around you.

Good luck!

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Drama

In our daily life we get passed a lot of useless complications created by ourselves. That's what I like to call "drama". We put ourselves, our families, our friends and you name the others through hard time just because "we don't think it's right", or "what would other people think of us", or basic rejection of adopting new ideas and ways of dealing with happenings around us.

Scenario 1: A father sees that the best way to teach his kids how life is by letting them depend on themselves, learn from their failures, and make their own decisions. He told them specifically "Son/daughter, you've reached a certain age that you should be able to make your own choices and accept the consequences". They choose their education, career path, friends, type of life, and build their personal character from scratch. Finally, they find the person they want to be with for the rest of their lives and STOP right there. Dad: "Son/daughter, that's a tough decision to make and I only have the control over it." well because you basically can't!. What a liberal dad! In the end, the son/daughter usually get to marry the person they want. Dad does cause problems, but in the end he accepts the fact and love his son/daughter's new family. Why complicate things from the beginning then?! Admit to facts.

Scenario 2: A person has a new job and he's so excited about it. His manager encourages him to think out of the box and suggest new initiatives. He tells him that he is should abide by the values of the company that includes the courage to critic and fix anything going wrong to help in the development process. Days goes by and he notice a slight malfunction in his department's process. He goes to his manager to discuss it with him - all proud and fantasizing about a near promotion. His manager nods and as days go by he notices neglection and the "silent others" get promoted while HE remains in the same position for 1, 3, 5 years or should I say until he quites? Why complicate things from the beginning then. Be Transparent.

Scenario 3: A newly married couple who love one another and promise lifetime. The thing that drove them together was the passion both of them had for life and that they are both well developed and educated – simply "equal". Months pass by and the "support" they once had for one another changes into jealousy and competition to become better and dominant. Competition rises to the extent that they can't take it anymore so the husband tries to show up his "manhood" as being the "guardian" and wife should be a mom and stay home. Wife starts her feminist opinions and women rights, after all what age does the man think he's living in? One thing leads to the other and a divorce happens with people wondering what went wrong with the once thought as a good "equal" couple. Wake up, there's no "equality" in marriage as there's only one dominant. Why complicate things from the beginning then?! Get ready to Compromise.

Scenario 4: A group of four best friends who survived high school and college together - Nothing can break their bond. One got engaged, then married. Jealousy started crawling, but you know what? They're waiting for the "right person" and they're still 3 singles! The second one gets engaged and married to a some-what-right-person. Two more singles! One eager to get married and the other still waiting for the right person. The third gets engaged to a not-at-all right person ... ops one more left?! They still meet up every now and then they feel "sorry" for the one who's still single and is still waiting for the "right person", but guess what? She's the luckiest as they're facing real issues! Why complicate things from the beginning then? Make the right choice - no regrets.

Dislike the above? It's true and it's real! I'm not the type of person who would look at life in a negative way. I'm a realist and such contradictions happen. We assume that we're ideal people giving the freedom for others to criticize and decide, but the time comes when we decide "aah you know what? maybe I'm not that understanding" and take it personally to crush others life whether we know it or not. Cruel? Well it can never be changed unless we start changing ourselves.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

A simple phrase ...

A simple phrase by anyone from family to friends to even total strangers can be a turn point in the way you look at life - you're life!

I'm sitting at my desk at work thinking off all the worries I have. I just started working after I finally recovered from surgery. I'm thinking of all the work I have to catch up for and all the emails I have to check and reply back to. I'm also thinking about my personal life and how I'm going to deal with relationship bumps I'm currently facing. I also have a big project coming up in June that I'll have to lead, excited? Well kind of and scared too! Summer is coming up and I'm traveling in a month and I need a lot of preparations including an international credit card that I haven't applied for yet. Social gatherings and family come togethers that are happening this weekend and all the talks and the gossips of "singles", "unmarried", kids, worries, husbands and so on. Oh and let's not forget my friend's wedding tomorrow that I have to attend although, as stated above, I just recovered from surgery!

Too many things on my mind. Too many things to worry about that I barely keep focused on one thing at a time. Why does life have to be that complicated? Why can't it just be as simple as once it was when we were kids? So many thoughts that cause so many questions to be answered. I went as far as help.com to find answers to my questions on "how to .... ". I guess I can't think anymore, or perhaps need a little help? HELP!!

As I was in the middle of this dilemma I got a message "tweeted" to me saying "Something better is coming your way ... It's time to get excited". I really can't explain the feeling I got once I read that message. It's like a flash of light that came into my mind to awaken me from all the worries I have. "Something better coming your way" and "get excited" - wow I needed that spirit!

It reminded me of my all time recommended book "The Secret" such a blessful book that actually awakens your mind to the world of the unknown. The world that we never knew or perhaps didn't believe in until The Secret came and gave us the key to it's door. Honestly, do read through it and you will understand what I mean. Ever since I read it, I felt like my whole prepective of the world has changed. Many of the things I dreamt of happened to me just by knowing how to attract them into my life through simple steps: Ask, Recieve, and always feel good and you'll get what you're asking for in no time.

After reading the book I promised myself to become a magnet for all the good things in the world and here are the steps I followed:
1) I wake up every morning smiling and saying "Goodmorning World!"
2) I thank God for giving me the life to this amazing day.
3) I listen to my best picked "positive" music while I get ready for work.
4) I drive in the car with the radio turned out loud and sing along.
5) Smile and try to make people's day :D!!
6) Enjoy every second of my day once I'm back from work.
7) Sleep peacefully like a person with no worries at all.

Finally, "Something better coming" my way I know it is and I am "excited" to recieve it :D!!

The Legendary STOP

Just checking the last time I wrote in this blog - Wow! It was 2 years ago! I can't even imagine how time flys by without us knowing. Actually, I had a wakeup call from one of my friends saying "Why did you stop posting?" Oh so finally someone is following :)!
The main reason I started is because I needed a space where I can share my thoughts with other people, and I was just done with the WAGL conference and was so full of energy and thoughts to say. Afterwards, I guess I lost interest or perhaps I was short of things to say. I also got really busy with work, life ... etc. Don't we all?
However, what I missed the most about blogging is the excitement I get when I start writing. To me, it's just like writing in your own diary that's both public and private at the same time.
So I'm back now writing in my blog again and sharing my thoughts with others. I really hope I can make a difference in other people's lives :)!